010101 Always remember that your personal life and family must take preference over everyone and everything else. It's hard to find a balance - trust me, I'm still trying to find one after 28 years - and, it never gets any easier.
Loved ones are hard to replace - work and play isn't. Treat them with #1 priority.
EDIT - just to add, I'm not 28. I really wish I was. With my current workload, I feel like 98 šļø