I'm closing this thread as it seems like the question was answered, and some recommendations were offered.
From time to time, there will be disagreements and interpersonal issues, that's common to any community. It's usually better to reach out in private first, and barring that, ensuring that the discussion meets our Community Guidelines.
Calling out a member of the community or staff generally leads to worse feelings. This discussion hasn't gotten there yet, but I'm closing it before it does.