Hi,
yes I am aware of that.
With method set to mail() it reports a "successfully sent" right away, with method smtp it takes like half a minute and then shows a red button about it went wrong. When I check the log then I can see the "timed out on port 465" error.
SPF is set up correctly, as said I am using the domain every day. It's nothing secret, just a hobby project. I just don't want to post the url in public here.
And a ps: In my first try on the test domain I have had installed a few extensions and also migrated my wpForo to Flarum. So I tried on the other domains with a plain Flarum, yesterday installed a new Flarum without any extensions and no migration. So it's a plain one in the most recent version.