dillweed
Okay. The file you want to edit is
yourflarumsite/assets/forum-randomstring.css
Make of copy of it for backup.
I copy/pasted all of it into https://www.cleancss.com/css-beautify/ so that it wasn't all on one line.
(makes it easier to read)
I was able to verify the Custom CSS gets appended to the bottom, so most likely your edits will be found at the bottom of the file.
Instead of trying to fix your custom CSS I would first try removing your current edits to get your site back up and then review what syntax errors might have caused it to fail.